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Worth Choosing

How I help

How private coaching works.

Four steps. No curriculum to sit through, no videos to watch. Just your situation, looked at closely.
  1. 1

    Apply

    Tell me about your situation and goals. I review every application personally, then arrange a pre-intake call if we are a good fit.

  2. 2

    Build your plan

    A 45-minute Strategy Session over Zoom reviews your history, profile and recent dates, and ends with 3–5 specific changes to test. The fee is credited toward coaching if you enroll within 7 days.

  3. 3

    Practice with support

    Multi-week coaching continues with 60-minute weekly or biweekly Zoom calls, profile and text review, and short messaging support between sessions.

  4. 4

    Reflect and adjust

    Apply the plan in real conversations and dates. We review what happened, identify the pattern and choose the next change to test.

The core of the work

The Date Debrief

You bring real material, such as your profile, your messages, and your recent dates. Together we look at what happened, how it likely landed, and the one change worth testing next.

Working with your real life

Bring your profile, a conversation that stalled or a recent date. We look at what you meant, how it may have landed and what to try next. Texting and dating-app messaging coaching is included in multi-week plans; tailored app management can be discussed separately.

If you're tired of guessing, let's figure out what's actually happening.

Clients are accepted based on fit.