Disclaimer

Please read this Disclaimer together with our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. It applies to our website, our book Beyond Nice Guys, the First Date Audit, our newsletter, and our coaching.

Educational and coaching purposes only

Everything we offer is for general education, personal reflection, and coaching. It is not therapy, counseling, psychotherapy, medical, legal, or financial advice, and it is not a substitute for any of them. We do not diagnose or treat any condition, and no therapist–client or similar professional relationship is created by reading our material or working with us.

Descriptions of anxious, avoidant, secure, or other relationship patterns are simplified and are meant to help you notice habits. They are not diagnoses. If you are struggling with your mental health, please speak with a licensed mental health professional.

If you are in crisis

If you are thinking about harming yourself or someone else, or you are in immediate danger, call or text 988 (the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline in the United States) or call 911.

No guarantees

Dating involves other people, and no one can promise how they will respond. We do not guarantee any result, including matches, dates, relationships, or changes in how others see you. Results vary from person to person. If we share client stories or testimonials, they reflect individual experiences and are not typical or guaranteed.

Our perspective

The ideas in our book, site, and coaching reflect the author's opinions and her personal and observational experience. They are not the result of a scientific study. Examples are illustrative.

Respect, consent, and safety

Nothing we offer encourages pressuring, deceiving, or disregarding anyone's boundaries. A no means no. When you meet people from dating apps or online, use sensible safety precautions, such as meeting in a public place, telling a friend where you will be, and trusting your instincts.

The First Date Audit

The audit is a self-reflection tool. It is not a validated psychological test, and it cannot predict whether any particular person will be interested in you.

Links and third parties

Our site and book may link to other websites, such as Amazon. We are not responsible for their content or policies.

Contact

Questions: margot@worthchoosingcoaching.com.